have any of you been placed in a situation where you where dating a guy that you had deep feelings for, but your heart didn’t feel like this guy was right for……..

that your heart felt for someone else deeper, but this person was one of your best friends????

well this is the situation that i am in………….

i am going out with this great guy he does everything right and i not ready to leave him, because i do love him,

but,……………

i have feelings for my best Friend and i don’t know what to think because since my and my boyfriend have been together my best Friend has been treating me like so much worse………………

i not asking if i should leave my boyfreind, cause that would be crazy, but i am asking if…………

there are any ways to tell how you best friend feels towards you and way they are acting the way they are……

because if things remain to be the way they are i don’t think that in two months when he leaves for college i will be able to talk to him again because we might not have a Friend ship left, basically he will not want to be Friends with me…………

i really want to keep this guy as a friend because he means so much to me and i can’t because not allowed to go out with him because my family is racist, however i am not…….

i want to become good friends with him to see how things will go down the line, see how thing are meant to  but i still need to know want bugging him and i want to know how he feels…………..

have any of you guys been in the same situation and how did things turn out?

or have any of you have any idea how to find out want is wrong with him?

or any way to tell how he really feels about me?